Entries by Pastor Jesse and Brenda McNeil

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HOW TO GIVE YOUR HUSBAND SECURITY

Family Focus Ministry Pastors Jesse & Brenda McNeil “Every person is worth understanding!”   (1) Encourage him to get involved in tasks that will have a positive impact on his […]

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How to Give Your Wife Security

(1) Stay connected with her emotionally. Your wife wants you to understand how she feels, and she wants to know what is going on in your heart and mind as […]

Spirit filled or Carnal Which are You?                                                                                   

  As It Relates to Love and Respect-Ephesians 5:33     Love and Respect are two of the greatest needs for the husband and wife. The husband is energized by respect, coupled […]

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10 Laws for a Healthy Pastor!

Ten Laws of Health (Proverbs 4: 20-22) 1. Fresh air and sunshine To breathe deeply and to receive vitamin D. 2. Drink plenty of water Drink cold drinks, coffee, etc., […]

The Do’s and Don’ts of COMMUNICATION IN MARRIAGE

1. Do make the Word of God your priority authority. 2. Do speak words of encouragement. 3. Do communicate exactly what you feel, truthfully and with love. 4. Do respect […]

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Steps to Restoring Your Marriage

1. Look for the good in your marriage (in your mate). Do your best to make it right, especially if you have invested years into it (Rom. 8:28 – And […]

Money Personalities

Pastor Jesse and Brenda McNeilPastors Jesse and Brenda McNeil are Assistant Pastors at Word Alive Ministries, Inc. in Lakeland, Florida. They are committed marriage and family pastors, advisors, and teachers, […]

The Give and Take Marital Love Test

A successful marriage is a give and take relationship, with each person doing as follows: 90% giving and 10% taking = 100% success   Here are ten questions to ask […]

How to Listen so My Spouse Will Talk!

CONFLICT RESOLUTION IN MARRIAGE The premise of productive listening is with our hearts. It is imperative that we grow in equanimity (having soundness of mind with spiritual discernment). Listen, any […]

CONFLICT RESOLUTION IN MARRIAGE

How to TALK So My Spouse Will Listen It is very important to seek God in prayer for wisdom. Proper timing and direction before engaging in conversation is essential. Notice […]

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TWELVE WAYS TO RELATE TO YOUR HUSBAND

(To identify with or to make him feel special) Don’t interrupt or correct him when he is telling a story. Compliment him in front of his children, your parents, his […]

TWELVE WAYS TO RELATE TO YOUR WIFE

(To identify with or to make her feel special) 1. Have good conversation when you’d rather read the paper or watch tv. 2. Give her a back rub with no […]